The 7th 'Commandment': לֹא תִנְאָף
(en.: 'one shall not wave/wink/swing')
one shall show respect, not just when approaching one another: two strangers walking by and smile when they feel attracted. on equal footing.
something like a marriage isn’t mentioned in the tanakh nor the new testament. and why should god repeat an ancient law principle? ‘PACTA SUNT SERVANDA’ (en.: ‘contracts have to be fulfilled’) or: an exclusive (monogamous) relationship shall be treated as an exclusive relationship?
examples for showing respect:
out of eden (the naked bosom, where milk & honey flows): when we ‘cover our shame’, we treat each other as equal1 (you’re wearing pants &c., right? for a reason i guess?)
it’s not about so-called «virginity» (being a social construct anyway), but «grace» and «dignity»
god (via medium) in german: „ich brauche kein geschlecht, aber für dich bin ich divers.” (en.: ‘i do not need a sex/gender, but for you i am diverse.’)
seemingly ‘allowed’ is what contributes to joy for everyone! (even mediate?) involved, as long as intimacy stays (contextually) intimate (onan simply was an envious/greedy man)
one shall digest the milk intended for the lamb, before one eats it or its mother
one please names god by her (not spoken out) name יהוה, like she said a lot of times, and does not replace the tetragrammaton YHWH with LORD (in capital letters!) or HERR in german
however: any least attempt to punish LOVE (her name btw) will find counterbalance.
amend (personally): i am against sex-/gender-related salutation and consider it insolent as long as it is taken seriously.